It was a shock to me as well, the same night your dad have been up in Auckland. The same time spending a few hours with you and Susan phoned me on my cell to give us the news about Big Man.

Yeah, I will remember him too and will not forget about the times we saw him and Beth.

I really enjoyed my times with them when we went and visit them etc….

Big Man to me was like a big teddy bear and he was so lovable, friendly, goodhearted etc…

Yeah, you need to give flowers to someone when they still alive not when they are dead.

You need to tell people how you feel about them when you get that chance to do so.

If you have the time etc… to go and visit someone you need to do that as well because you might never know what will happen next. You or that person might be dead.

It gives me the chance to say to you and to Susan:- “No matter what happened in the past between us, I have accepted you 2 as my stepchildren from day one”.

“I am so proud to be part of your 2 lives in a very small way and I am so proud to be called your stepmom. You 2 might not feel the same way about me because what has happened in the past between us”.

“I love you 2 very very very much”. Both you 2 have done me just proud in my live”.

I do like to boost/brag about you 2 as my stepchildren everywhere I go!!!

Love ya!!!

Regards
CorneliaW